Last month, my doctor asked if anything specific was triggering me. At the time, I couldn't think of anything. Until a specific day came, and I broke down in tears for hours. It had been a long time since I'd allowed myself to do that. 😦 The majority of my breakdowns are quiet. Real quiet. … Continue reading In The Face of Trauma: Fatherless Daughter
Goals
Another Week, Another Needle, Or Three
It's been another one of those weeks where time has flown by, and I feel dizzy from the rush of it all. I realized this when traffic was backed up in Sumner Tunnel. The whooshing of the fact that you're underwater is the first thing you can feel, and it made me nauseous. Normally, tunnels … Continue reading Another Week, Another Needle, Or Three
You Don’t Have To Compromise
Go and get everything you want, ladies.
Sorrow and Strife
“Sorrow and strife comes to all persons. Mature people expect hardships and setbacks and patiently and determinedly work to accomplish their goals. Immature people lash out in anger and frustration when circumstances conspire to blunt their short-term objectives.” ―Kilroy J. Oldster
Save Yourself
This past year has been emotionally draining. I am making changes to move forward and move on, but I still have days when I feel trapped and stuck, even though most of that is the overwhelming stress of Covid lingering around, and what it has done to this world. A lot can change in a … Continue reading Save Yourself
To Conquer Frustration
“To conquer frustration, one must remain intensely focused on the outcome, not the obstacles.” ―T.F. Hodge
So Long, Farewell…
Dosvedanya, yanvar'. One day I'll figure out why you are so unkind to me, but not today. Looking forward to February. Looking forward to the halftime show Sunday night. Looking forward, PERIOD. My eyes are on my goals.
Getting Honest
I was talking to my brother recently and, on occasion, he'll say something completely on point to my internal dialogue. He doesn't know he's saying something that will spark a reaction from me, but that's okay. His head is big enough. 😉 Whenever I talk to someone who genuinely knows me and knows my heart, … Continue reading Getting Honest
Works In Progress
The start of each new year is often the same; full of diets, gym memberships, promises to work more, or work less; promises in general are a big thing, and most of these "resolutions" are temporary. They last a week or a month, sometimes two, but very rarely become a new way of living for … Continue reading Works In Progress
