“The scars from mental cruelty can be as deep and long-lasting as wounds from punches or slaps, but are often not as obvious. In fact, even among women who have experienced violence from a partner, half or more report that the man’s emotional abuse is what is causing them the greatest harm.” -Lundy Bancroft
Abuse
Silent Sufferers
“There are far too many silent sufferers. Not because they don't yearn to reach out, but because they've tried and found no one who cares.” ―Richelle E. Goodrich
We Often Think Of Oppression In Terms Of Tyrants
"We often think of oppression in terms of tyrants, but it most often comes from the institutions, philosophies, and people closest to us. Most oppression is near and dear. Next time your spouse or partner abusively criticizes you, or says you are worthless, not good enough, stupid, or inadequate — tell them that if it … Continue reading We Often Think Of Oppression In Terms Of Tyrants
Once Upon A Time
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uelHwf8o7_U Once upon a time, in an extremely bizarre reality, I was in a relationship I should not have been in. The warning signs were there, but some people burn so brightly that you don’t seem to notice you’re going up in flames and turning to ash. Immensely large red flares of danger were being … Continue reading Once Upon A Time
Safe Places
There are no safe places any more. There is only anger, violence, hatred, weapons, and blame. Words get taken out of context, because one cannot grow up and handle the truth. Responsibilities are ever-present. Mental illness is not something to be bandied about or laughed off. Throwing people's issues around breeds contempt. But you cannot … Continue reading Safe Places
Domestic Violence: It’s Always Going To Be Personal
Domestic Violence: It’s Always Going To Be Personal I don’t talk about my personal life on this platform much. You’d really have to know me and be able to read between the lines to pick up on subtle nuances. However, there’s an issue that’s been bothering me and I have decided to open up here … Continue reading Domestic Violence: It’s Always Going To Be Personal
