"We often think of oppression in terms of tyrants, but it most often comes from the institutions, philosophies, and people closest to us. Most oppression is near and dear. Next time your spouse or partner abusively criticizes you, or says you are worthless, not good enough, stupid, or inadequate — tell them that if it … Continue reading We Often Think Of Oppression In Terms Of Tyrants
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Last week I was struggling pretty hard and opened up to a friend. Most people run for the hills when you're blatant in your honesty with them, especially about anything difficult, but this friend showed me that I was not going to be kicked while I was down, that her arms and heart were open … Continue reading Actions & Words
Pull The Covers Up And Leave Me Alone
I'm a pretty dark person. I have a wicked sense of humor and I'll say anything goofy to make someone laugh, but when it's my life, there isn't a lot I perceive as humorous. I'm not the kind of person who laughs at someone else's pain or who enjoys hearing about someone's breakups, divorces, illnesses, … Continue reading Pull The Covers Up And Leave Me Alone
Only Ignorant People Walk Away From Greatness
“Dignity /ˈdignitē/ noun 1. The moment you realize that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache. 2. The moment you realize God has greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night or sad Pinterest quotes. 3. The moment you stop comparing yourself to others … Continue reading Only Ignorant People Walk Away From Greatness
Nightmares In Editing
I am an immense fan of what I call the "clean manuscript". That means the manuscript doesn't require me to do any of the following: Lose hair. Attempt to remove my eyeballs with a fork or melon baller. Grind my teeth. Slouch over my laptop in sheer disgust. And those are just a few of … Continue reading Nightmares In Editing
Let’s Encourage One Another…
This is one of the most fabulous things I've read in a while. As a writer, I come across a lot of negativity for my successes. There's so much jealousy, and yet none of it comes from me. I do not see other people as competition. Support people if you want to be supported in … Continue reading Let’s Encourage One Another…
Thank Goddess It’s Friday!
What a horrific week. I am not sorry to move into the weekend, not even with 4-7 inches of snow currently predicted between tonight and tomorrow. There hasn't been much snow to speak of this winter. Yes, for that I should be grateful, and I am, but I do like a few inches on the … Continue reading Thank Goddess It’s Friday!
Are You Working Hard, Or Hardly Working?
Do you ever find yourself utterly dizzy reading what you've written, or even the work of a fellow writer? If so, welcome to the club! I have been editing for a client for three days now. At the rate I'm going, I will be done next week. All I will say about it is that … Continue reading Are You Working Hard, Or Hardly Working?
