“Life is not compassionate towards victims. The trick is not to see yourself as one. It’s never too late! I know I’ve felt like the victim in various situations in my life, but, it’s never too late for me to realize that it’s my responsibility to stand on victorious ground and know that whatever it is I’m experiencing or going through, those are just the clouds rolling by while I stand here on the top of this mountain! This mountain called Victory! The clouds will come and the clouds will go, but the truth is that I’m high up here on this mountaintop that reaches into the sky! I am a victor. I didn’t climb up the mountain, I was born on top of it!” ―C. Joybell C.
Quotes
This Life Can Be Brutal
“This life can be brutal, but it is never harder than when you feel alone. Aloneness is one of the great illusions of the world. When we feel alone, we forget our great commonality. We can then become pessimistic or fatalistic about life. You are not alone, and there is so much goodness in the world. Our goodness is so resilient and ever wanting to express and serve. You can escape from ugliness and flee to reverence, beauty, and awe. Seek out spiritual communion with nature and different ideas and people. Strive to develop your understanding of the universal human struggle for peace and existence on this planet. It is amazing how huge problems shrink as our awareness expands. As you expand yourself, you will realize that you are not so different from others in your suffering, wishes, and hopes. Beneath the suffering we are all the same vast beings, and if you look deeply enough you will discover that you love people, and you care, even for people with whom you disagree or don’t understand. The sweetness in life did not go away; we turned our backs on her. Turn away from the ugliness and reunite with beauty. You have to want the beauty of life really bad, and you have to take action and look for it. You have to become a beauty seeker. You may not realize it yet, but someone, somewhere in the future needs you, and you have something great to offer others in this life. You are never alone.” —Bryant McGill
You Do Not Live Each Day…
“You do not live each day to discover what it holds for you, but to create it. You are creating your reality every minute.” —Neale Donald Walsch
Just Do What You Do…
“Just do what you do and do it well. Stop worrying about what other people are doing, or what they will say about what you are doing. Just do what you do to the best of your ability. Whether people like or agree with what you do is not the issue.” ~Iyanla Vanzant
The Decision To Be Positive
“The decision to be positive is not one that disregards or belittles sadness that exists. It is rather a conscious choice to focus on the good and to cultivate happiness – genuine happiness. Happiness is not a limited resource. When we devote our energy and time to trivial matters and choose to stress over things that ultimately are insignificant, from that point, we perpetuate our own sadness and lose sight of the things that really make us happy and rationalize our way out of doing amazing things.” –Christopher Aiff
Love Doesn’t Mean…
“Love doesn’t mean doing extraordinary or heroic things. It means knowing how to do ordinary things with tenderness.” -Jean Vanier
If You Can’t See Anything…
“If you can’t see anything beautiful about yourself, get a better mirror.” -Shane Koyczan
As A Child…
“As a child I felt myself to be alone, and I am still, because I know things and must hint at things which others apparently know nothing of, and for the most part do not want to know.” -Carl G. Jung: The Undiscovered Self, Jung on Alchemy
I came across this quote the other day. I felt this way as a child. I feel this way as an adult. I suspect it plays a huge role in why I am such an introverted extrovert. Thankfully I’ve long since stopped listening to other people’s opinions and listen solely to myself. Unfortunately, sometimes nagging fuckers get through and it pisses me off. Mama always said there’d be days like this. 😦
The Things We Hate
“The things we hate about ourselves aren’t more real than the things we like about ourselves.” -Ellen Goodman
Your Present Circumstances…
“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.” -Nido Qubein
